Blog hopping as I usually do,
I read this.
Had me thinking about people in relationships, and why they had to do all sorts of shameful nonsense only to fulfill their selfish desires.
Fair enough dude eventually told the truth about his feelings, after letting things get deep between them. Sucks if you ask me.
In other cases,
You'd have people who would just let things go on, keep you with them and keep thinking about the other person.
Or his type.
Or the ones who would try to keep the both of you.
Or the ones who get the message and move on after fighting it.
I have two friends who went through different scenarios.....Story for another day.
A case of an ex and a cheating boyfriend.
With the cheating boyfriends...
Why do they have to stoop so low?
For me it's easy- especially if you have cheated before- you know the consequences.
End your relationship and chase your new fish, when you're tired you go after a new one, until you get it in your numb skull that every girl/guy is the same at the end of the day.
But Noooooooo, they will go through the stress of sending stupid texts or making calls when their wives/girlfriend/fiances -Vice Versa -are not around- or even worse wait for them to go to the kitchen/bathroom/ out of the house.
If that isn't bad enough, you have the ones who are so silly to change names on their phones- I mean- do you really think the other person is that dumb?
If he/she was dumb, you wouldn't be with him/her in the 1st place.....(My ex did that once, knowing the kind of person he was, I was far from suprised.)- Had a family friend who found out her boyfriend had saved her name as "Dapo" on his phone- and she's Ibo- LOL!
Lets not even talk about the ones that are married, some even married with kids! and they have the nerve to lie about it.
Or is it the ones that go through the pains of covering their tracks, by cutting off incoming calls, switching their phones off when you're with them, deleting call logs and text messages.
I mean......What do you really GAIN?
I think it's only fair that you consider the other person.
For the fact you have a heart pumping blood,
Literally have a heart.
If you can't control your urges.CHOOSE!!!
Don't do that nonsense of having a wife/girlfriend yet you're sharing intimacy with someone else.
It can be easily done to you, and you better believe- You will NOT like it.
PS: Venting on behalf of my broken hearted friends.
PPS: Birthday is in exactly two weeks.......Nooooooooooo excitement what so ever.
PPPS: I feel numb...............